Tag: HIV/AIDS

  • SYLVESTER

    SYLVESTER

    “i get this conformist shit from queens all the time. they always want to read me. they always want me to do it their way. i am not going to conform to the gay lifestyle as they see it and that’s for sure.” – sylvester  sylvesterjames jr. september 6, 1947…

  • Forgotten AIDS Episode of Forgotten 80’s Sitcom

    Forgotten AIDS Episode of Forgotten 80’s Sitcom

    in the fall of 1989, i was a 12 year-old fem as fuck youth who hungered for any queer representation on tv when i discovered the groundbreaking sitcom, “brothers.” the show, which was the first weekly sitcom on cable, had just ended it’s five-year run showtime and was now finding…

  • All Of The Promises I Made To Tina

    All Of The Promises I Made To Tina

    On July 3 1981, The New York Times printed an article with the headline “Rare Cancer seen in 41 homosexuals.” It was the first mainstream media mention of what would become the HIV epidemic. On this date, the epidemic didn’t have a name.  Even after 37 years, it is still…

  • Remember June 5,  1981

    Remember June 5, 1981

    on june 5, 1981, the center for disease control (cdc) published an article in its morbidity and mortality weekly report (mmwr): pneumocystis pneumonia—los angeles. the article described cases of pneumocystis carinii pneumonia(pcp), a rare lung infection, in five young, white, previously healthy gay men in los angeles. the report stated…

  • ANGIE XTRAVAGANZA

    ANGIE XTRAVAGANZA

    “I’m your mother,” she said. It was a promise and defiant declaration to her kids that they would feel orphaned in a world where AIDS, violence, poverty, and homophobia would surely attempt to steal their magic. It was the early 1980’s, pre-gentrified New York, years before “transgender” and “gender non-conforming”…

  • My Thank You To Pedro Zamora

    My Thank You To Pedro Zamora

    In 1994, a friend of mine (who we will call Lionel) asked me to accompany him to a clinic in West Philadelphia to get the results of his HIV test. Back then, HIV tests were not rapid – it took an entire week to get your results, a week of…

  • Never Dreamed You Leave In Summer: Remembering a Love Named Rob

    Never Dreamed You Leave In Summer: Remembering a Love Named Rob

    his name was rob. he was 26. i met him in the bronxm4m aol chat room. it was 2005 and that was still a thing. his screen name was br0nxprynce. we connected immediately during our chat. dude was funny as hell. for a week, we chatted while i was at…

  • Ricky | Philadelphia, PA

    Ricky | Philadelphia, PA

    i went through so much. i went through hell and back. and i went so much in the latino gay community. the black gay community showed me so much love when i came out, didn’t talk about me. verses what i went though in the latin gay community. as i…